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Grace Bible Church

4000 E. Collins Rd.   P.O. Box #3762   Gillette, WY  82717   (307) 686-1516

 

- Preaching the Living WORD through the Written WORD - 2 Tim 4;:2 -

 

 

 

EVIDENCES OF LOVE

 (1 John 3:11-18)

Grace Bible Church, Gillette, Wyoming

Pastor Daryl Hilbert

 

A.    Evidences of Familial Relationship (1Jn 3:1-10)

B.    Evidences of Love (3:11-18)

 

1.     Love is God’s Message (1Jn 3:11)

 

a)    John is going to give more evidences of true fellowship with God. These evidences will revolve around the command to “love one another.”

b)    This was the message, which the apostles heard from the beginning. The “beginning” would refer to the beginning of Christ’s ministry. The phrase, “love one another” is taught throughout Christ’s ministry.

(1)   It was part of His teaching (Mt 5:43-36; 22:37-39).

(2)   It was a new commandment given by Christ (Jn 13:34; 15:12, 17).

(3)   It was reiterated throughout the New Testament (Ro 13:8; 1Th 4:9; 1Pe 1:22).

(4)   It was emphatically stressed in John’s epistles (1Jn 2:10; 3:10-18, 23; 4:7-12, 16-21; 5:1-3; 2Jn 1:1-6; 3Jn 1:1, 6).

c)     Love comes from the Greek word agapáō, which is the self-sacrificial love that seeks to benefit another.

d)    Showing love toward one another is the distinguishing mark of a true believer (Jn 13:35).

 

2.     Love is not the World’s Message (1Jn 3:12-15).

 

a)    The negative example is that of Cain, who was evil (ponerós - bad, wicked, used to describe the devil) and murdered (sphaźō - slaughter, butcher, violence) his brother (12).

(1)   John asks the reason why Cain slew his brother. The answer was that Cain’s deeds were evil but Abel’s were righteous.

(2)   The motive for the killing was jealousy, which stemmed from an evil heart.

(3)   Note: God did not have regard for Cain and his offering because of his heart attitude not for the presentation of the “fruit of the ground.” It was not a sin offering and the Lord later instituted grain offerings.

b)    The response of evil and hatred is becoming of the world. John informs believers (“brethren”) not to be “surprised” (thaumaźō - amazed or marvel) at this response from the world (13).

(1)   Evil despises righteousness and expresses it through hatred (miséō - strong hostility and rejection).

(2)   As the believer demonstrates the righteousness of Christ, the world will show its hatred and hostility (Mt 10:22; 24:9; Jn 15:18-19; 17:14 cp. 1Jn 2:15) toward him.

c)     Love for the brethren is an evidence of new life in Christ and therefore evidence of salvation (14).

(1)   In fact, John says the believer can “know” (oida - perception) through perception and discernment that he has passed out of (ek) death and into (eis) life (cp. Jn 5:24) if he loves one another. He also identifies the one who abides in death by the fact that he is habitually not loving (ho mę́ agapṓn) one another.

(2)   The litmus test for genuine salvation is the believer’s agape love. It demonstrates that the believer abides in God’s light (1Jn 2:10).

d)    John now makes the connection that those who hate their brother are in essence murderers at heart (15).

(1)   Jesus taught that to have anger and hatred in the heart is equivalent to being a murderer (Mt 5:21-22). The heart attitude is equivalent to the act or at least the potential for the act.

(2)   John states that these believers know and perceive that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him or will inherit eternal life (Ro 1:29; 1Ti 1:9).

 

3.     Love is Christ’s Example (1Jn 3:16)

 

a)    How does one understand love? By understanding Christ’s agape love demonstrated on the cross (Ro 5:8) for redemption.

b)    John pinpoints Christ’s love by the fact that “He laid down His life for us.” Jesus laid down His life (aorist active indicative - títhemi - to set or place) as an example for believers (Jn 15:12-13) and He did it voluntarily (Jn 10:15-18).

c)     By Jesus’ example, believers are compelled to emulate His love by laying down (títhemi - same word) their lives for the brethren (cp. Jn 13:37-38).

 

4.     Love is the Believer’s Duty (1Jn 3:17-18)

 

a)    Love for the brethren is shown by seeing and meeting needs. If someone turns his back to someone’s needs, God’s love does not abide in him (17).

(1)   John uses a very practical example and one perhaps the false teachers miserably failed. It is the example of one having ample resources to live (“world’s goods”) yet having an unwillingness to share.

(2)   It is not as though he did not see (theoréō - watch or gaze, Jn 20:6; Re 11:12) his brother’s needs. Rather he closed (kleíō - shut and locked, Mt 25:10; Jn 20:19) his heart to their needs.

(3)   Not meeting the needs of another is the opposite of agape love.

b)    The believer is exhorted not to talk about love, but to put it into practice (18).

(1)   Loving with word or tongue means to make many claims or promises of our great love but never following through with it.

(2)   The believer is to love in deed (ergon - work of righteousness, works) and in truth (alę́theia - reality)

 

II.    APPLICATIONS

 

A.    Increase Your Love by Perceiving Christ’s Love

 

1.     Believers are purified by focusing on Christ (1Jn 3:3). One of the areas believers need to focus on is Christ’s love.

2.     Believer are able to demonstrate agapę love because Christ loved them first (1Jn 4:10, 19).

 

B.    Increase Your Love by Praying

 

1.     It is God’s will that the believer grow and abound in love (Phil 1:9; 1Th 3:12).

2.     If we ask anything according to His will, He hears and answers us (1Jn 5:14-15).

3.     We are able to love others when we pray for them (Mt 5:44).

 

C.    Increase Your Love by Practicing Loving One Another.

 

1.     True agape love is not real unless it is in action. Love without action does not benefit anyone (1Co 13:1-3).

2.     In Paul’s description of the love in 1Co 13:4-8, he uses all action verbs.

3.     Put love into practice and you will have more of it.